Start Your Settlement Strategy Here and NOW

The fastest way out of divorce court is a settlement offer.
Not more fighting. Not more hearings. Not more bills.

Welcome to The Divorce Vault.

I’m Melissa Gragg - a financial mediator, valuation expert, and testifying expert witness with over 20 years inside the divorce system. I’ve seen how cases drag on, how costs explode, and how control slips away the longer you wait.

Here’s the truth most people aren’t told:
Divorce doesn’t end in court. It ends with a settlement offer.

The Divorce Vault gives you the exact tools, spreadsheets, guides, and strategy used to:

  • Create a clear position statement

  • Build a settlement offer early

  • Anchor negotiations before court takes over

  • Push your case toward resolution - faster and with far less damage

You can’t control your spouse. You can’t control the judge. But you can control your strategy.

This vault exists to help you do exactly that - and get out of the system as quickly as possible.

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Settlement Offer (Excel Spreadsheet)

Settlement Offer (Excel Spreadsheet)

Hi, I’m Melissa! One of the members of Divorce Allies, where we help people rebuild life after divorce. We just created the most amazing product for you!

Power Moves in Divorce: Your Roadmap to Settlement

Imagine creating the power moves in your divorce - leading your team, setting the tone, and moving confidently toward a full financial settlement.

We’ve built the Power Pack Guide to Settlement Offers to help you take control of the process from start to finish. Inside, you’ll find everything you need to create your:

  • 🧭 Position Statement - your story and strategy in one clear document

  • 💰 Settlement Offer - the proposal that gets you out of the system faster

  • 📊 Financial Spreadsheets - the same tools we use in real cases

    (valued between $5,000 and $20,000)

This is the exact roadmap we use to settle complex divorce cases — now simplified so you can do it yourself.

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⚓ Anchor the Deal
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Follow the Money: A Forensic Guide & Excel Templates
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Create Your Strategy

The Divorce Position Statement

Inside The Divorce Vault you’ll learn The NEW Divorce System - a methodical system to prepare a clear Divorce Position Statement, Anchor a realistic financial settlement offer, and lead negotiations in mediation with evidence - not emotion.

Download the starter guide and begin today.

Big Ideas, Real Impact

Driven by curiosity and built on purpose, this is where bold thinking meets thoughtful execution. Let’s create something meaningful together. More Videos on our YouTube Channel & Podcast Episodes.

Resources For Growth

Resources For Growth

Hi, I’m Anna! One of the members of Divorce Allies, where we help people rebuild life after divorce. I’m passionate about helping our members regain their financial footing and, most importantly, rediscover their purpose.

Explore my featured products and trainings, from practical guides that help you start earning again fast, to wellness journals designed to support reflection and healing during your transition. Let’s get you moving forward — financially, emotionally, and purposefully.

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🌙 The Thought Leader Blueprint & Content Creation Loop

Turn your ideas into income - without the burnout.

This 4-part video + workbook series walks you step-by-step through creating digital products, mastering AI tools, and building a brand that works while you rest.

💡 What’s Inside:

  1. Module 1: Find Your Voice & Core Message
    – Define your brand themes, learn how to “train” AI to sound like you, and clarify your tangible promise.

  2. Module 2: Build Your Visibility Funnel
    – Turn blogs and posts into a cohesive marketing system that attracts the right audience.

📘 You’ll Get:

  • 4 video lessons (implementation + strategy)

  • Copy-and-paste AI prompts for every stage

  • Real examples from our own projects (The Divorce Vault, Anchor the Deal, and more)

✨ Perfect for coaches, creators, and thought leaders ready to turn their expertise into visibility, products, and legacy content.

The Divorce Vault. Roadmap for The Divorce System™

A complete alternative to the court system.

A 6-phase framework where women and couples move through:

  1. Discovery – Emotional stabilization, truth-telling, safety, and documentation.

  2. Disclosure – Gathering and understanding financial and legal information.

  3. Definition – Building the Position Statement + Property Statement.

  4. Dealmaking – Anchoring the offer, mediation prep, and negotiation strategy.

  5. Defense – Deposition, expert testimony, or high-conflict strategies if needed.

  6. Design – Post-divorce independence, healing, and rebuilding your new life or business.

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Create your Divorce Position Statement
Tell Me YOUR Truth (Share Your Story)
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Here at The Divorce Vault, we work with women and couples, providing the roadmap and steps to guide your divorce to settlement. Download the Video Tutorials, Guidebooks, ChatGPT prompts and more to get settled in less than 6 months.

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 What We Do

We’ve spent decades behind the scenes helping women organize their cases, negotiate their settlement offers, and walk away with what truly matters. Now, The Divorce Vault™ puts that same expertise in your hands.

With 50+ hours of step-by-step content, you’ll learn how to create your position statement, anchor your deal, plan for mediation, and finalize an agreement that benefits your whole family.

When you’re ready, we’ll guide you in building your next chapter - whether it’s starting a personal brand, selling eBooks, or healing through retreats.

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